Get Into The Right Room
Lesson 21: There is Power in Being in the Right Room
Being in the right room can change everything—it exposes you to new ideas, connects you with incredible people, and allows you to contribute in ways you never imagined. It’s not just about physically being there; it’s about showing up with humility, intention, and a willingness to serve.
Earlier this year, I had the privilege of being invited to a taskforce leading the planning and execution of a major project. The team was composed of senior leaders and department heads from a well-established organization. Having worked with the project lead on several occasions, I was invited to contribute to a specific component of the project.
Though it was an honour, I couldn’t shake the feeling of imposter syndrome. Who was I to be in the room with such esteemed individuals? More importantly, how could I add value to a team of this calibre? These questions weighed heavily on me.
Despite my doubts, I made it a point to listen attentively during meetings, taking every opportunity to learn from the expertise in the room. When the time came to contribute, I focused on offering thoughtful insights that supported the team’s objectives. By the end of the project, I had built meaningful relationships, gained invaluable insights, and proved to myself that I belonged.
This experience reminded me of the power of being in the right room—not just as a passive observer, but as someone ready to learn, adapt, and contribute.
Why Being in the Room Matters
The “room” represents more than a physical space—it’s the environments and networks where opportunities, growth, and inspiration thrive. Being in the right room places you closer to the people, ideas, and challenges that can elevate your thinking and sharpen your skills.
When you find yourself in the room, remember to:
- Remain Humble: Enter with an open mind and a willingness to learn. Recognize that you are there to grow, not to impress. Humility allows you to absorb the wisdom and experiences of others.
- Intentionally Watch and Learn: Use the opportunity to observe, ask questions, and take notes. The value lies not just in hearing what is said, but in understanding the nuances of how ideas are shared and problems are solved.
- Offer Value Whenever Possible: When the opportunity arises, contribute meaningfully. Whether it’s an insightful comment, a helping hand, or a fresh perspective, your contributions can demonstrate your readiness to be in the room.
Lessons from the Room
- Exposure to Greatness: Being in the room connects you with people whose knowledge and experience can challenge and inspire you.
- Growth Through Observation: Watching how others handle challenges and opportunities teaches you invaluable lessons you might not learn otherwise.
- Opportunities to Contribute: Contribution is a two-way street. When you give, you earn respect and create avenues for collaboration and mentorship.
Being in the room is a privilege, but it’s also a responsibility. Show up ready to learn, grow, and serve. Whether it’s a boardroom, a conference, or a casual gathering of minds, every room you enter has the potential to shape your future.
So,
What room will you step into next—and how will you maximize it?
In case you missed lesson 20, you can read it here.
Ivan Kabandize